June 9, 2009

What I Love Most About Fire Island Pines

For all of the wonderful things about the Pines in Fire Island, a tiny strip of land off the coast of Long Island, NY, the overwhelming thing that occurred to me as I flew home yesterday was that I, and everyone there, could completely and totally just be ourselves!
Yes, it is an absolutely gorgeous place with pristine beaches, no cars (only boardwalks), approximately 500 great beach homes, and a few shops, bars and restaurants.  But way more meaningful to many of us is that this community is just about totally gay, and the fact that we “own” the whole thing allows us to completely let down our guard which sadly, even in the most progressive cities and towns in America, we still must to some degree maintain.
Think about it.  If, as a straight person walking down any street in the world, you had to think twice before taking the hand of your boy or girlfriend (or spouse, for that matter), as doing so might endanger your well-being, wouldn’t it upset you, even a little?  Gay people generally have no more or less interest in public displays of affection than do straight people.  But Fire Island brings home, by the very greatness of the feelings of our freedom there, the enormous disparity which still exists in the world today.  And while I so appreciate the great steps which continue to be made toward bringing about true equality, for which I have faith the the Obama administration will vastly improve, I can’t help but wonder again how allowing any two people, gay or straight, to show their love for each-other, whether by holding hands or yes, marrying, could be viewed as anything but PERFECT!  No person on earth should ever be afraid of loving another and expressing that love, for that is exactly what we were put here to do.

Cheers!

RD

Filed under: Everything Else — RDover2 @ 3:18 pm

The Baton Changes Hands Again!

Last weekend saw another new champion rise to stardom with Edward Gal’s Moorlands Totilas beating Anky and Salinero in all three legs of the Dutch Championships. He received amazing scores in his tests, as did Salinero, but managed to earn over 86% in the Freestyle, something , especially with a test not full of extremely difficult movements, close to impossible to achieve. His highlights which show the very best piaffe and passage imaginable, as well as very correct changes and pirouettes, were obviously more important to the judges then either the degree of difficulty which, as I said, was rather simple, but one either has to love Edward’s choice of very dramatic music or find it rather annoying and lacking in “musicality”.  I am sorry to say, I found it to be the latter. There were even transitions which happened without clear demarkation from the  music, making it all seem too much like a background theme for me. But just so you know, even those things don’t total a hill of beans next to how incredibly awesome Edward and Totalis are together!  The fantstic beauty, gaits, and magnificient presence of this team going around the arena are worthy of being called Champions and I salute them and can’t wait to watch them in person. In the meantime, one of my readers was kind enough to send in his Freestyle from youtube which I posted below.

Cheers!

RD 

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June 5, 2009

More News From Dover’s World FEI International Desk

FEI PRESS RELEASELausanne, 5 June 2009  FEI TRIBUNAL ISSUES DECISIONS IN GERMAN CASES The FEI Tribunal today communicated two decisions in the cases brought before it last week in which the FEI had sought provisional suspensions of the rider Marco Kutscher, former team veterinarian Björn Nolting, and FEI Bureau member Hanfried Haring. In the matters involving Mr Kutscher and Dr Haring, the Tribunal denied the request for provisional suspensions on legal grounds, reasoning that unlike the applicable provisions under the anti-doping rules, the rules in horse abuse cases did not allow for suspension prior to a final decision on the merits of the case. The measures sought by the FEI were to be of a limited and temporary nature until the results of the Ethics Panel investigating the underlying matters are known. The FEI’s actions resulted from widespread reports that the horse Cornet Obolensky had been treated at the Olympics in Hong Kong between competition rounds, that this may have resulted in pain or discomfort to the horse when he fell against a stable wall, that the horse subsequently competed and that neither the treatment nor the welfare issue were reported at the time as provided by the rules. The FEI case involving Björn Nolting is still open, given that he was unable to be heard at last week’s Tribunal hearing. Regarding the matter of Dr Haring, HRH Princess Haya, FEI President, commented: “The Tribunal was not asked to judge the guilt or innocence of Hanfried Haring but instead it was asked to endorse the protests of the FEI Bureau in provisionally suspending him as a Bureau Member and FEI judge until it was established that he had no involvement in the ongoing case. This is common practice in organisations to ensure that a person who is in a position of authority is cleared first of any involvement in the specific issue, given the available evidence. Their decision underlines the independence of the Tribunal, the sole body elected by the General Assembly to decide on such matters. Hanfried Haring remains a Member of the Bureau and his fellow Bureau Members will accord him the respect that he deserves.” 

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FEI Dressage Task Force News

You read it here first! I am very excited by the news below about our upcoming Dressage “Judging Systems Trial set for September 7-9, in Aachen.
We on the DTF have been working hard on the tasks we were mandated to deal with.
I look forward to being in Aachen for this forum.
The Dressage Task Force held a Conference Call on 4 June to discuss the programme for the Judging Systems Trial which will take place at Aachen on the 7, 8 and 9 September. Stakeholder Group representatives will be invited to attend – more details will be sent out at a later date. The aim of the JST will be to trial all of the different judging systems that the DTF are reviewing for the future. These systems relate to the number of judges, the positioning of the judges and the judging process itself . The Trial will explore each option in an open minded and objective way in order to help the DTF put together recommendations for the Bureau in November when also the new Dressage Technical Committee will be appointed. Trond Asmyr also joined the Conference Call since he was visiting the HQ in Lausanne. Trond will start work as the Dressage Director on the 22 June.  

Filed under: Uncategorized — RDover2 @ 9:59 am

June 4, 2009

Very Cool!

You know what I love? Watching horses I’ve trained go on with students or others to be fantastic with them!

Over the many years, I’ve trained a lot of horses to Grand Prix, both for myself and clients. When I’ve been able to have them for a long enough period of time and “make them my pets”, I’ve gotten a lot of joy out of the process as well as the results.  I always tell people they have to love the road and see it as the true end, as opposed to investing all their energy, both physical and emotional in other kinds of outcomes.

Recently, just as in the past on so many occasions, i have been having the great pleasure of nearing the “finish line” (though one is never really finished with training ourselves or our horses) with 3 horses, all of whom I love. OK, I already know what some of you who know me too well are thinking. “Robert, you always say that any horse you are seriously riding is the best one you’ve ever sat on!”  And you’re right - I always have;  even when I knew in my heart it wasn’t really true.  I needed not only to talk others into believing in my horse, but myself as well.  That’s actually one of the secrets to sucess - BELIEF!

Anyway, I got to watch two top American riders on a couple of my favorite horses the last days, and I loved every minute of it!  Years ago, Reiner klimke told me that the best compliment any trainer could receive is that other’s could get on their horse and feel like it was very easy for them to ride, both physically and mentally.  So when I watched my two horses going around, looking like top international stars that took my breath away, I felt extremely gratified and ready to see my “pets” move on to the big leagues with new jockeys.  That’s really been one of my favorite parts of being a horse trainer.

Cheers!

RD

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June 3, 2009

As Dover’s World Turns - The Continuing Zada Saga

  I  received word that the latest article has come out interviewing Ron Davis, friend and documentary movie producer, by well known, award winning  journalist, Diana Derosa.  It deals with Ron’s latest movie about his “Joe Zada story”, which is very similar to ours and is wonderfully titled, “Riches To Rags”.   Below you will find a link to the article with a message from Diana.   It’s the stuff of a good novel but, sadly for too many of us, TRUE!     Wishing you all enjoyable reading, and please tell your friends!

Cheers!

RD

The article is up at:

http://www.centralequine.com/

Scroll down and you’ll see where you can click on to read the article. Please spread the word for others to read and then also take a moment to go to this link and make a comment on the blog.

It would be great if we could get a lot of people responding on the blog so we can see how many people are out there.

For any comments just click on the Riches to Rags title. To make a comment click on comment.

If anyone has any more information or emails of people who have agreed or would agree to talk to me ,please forward those.

Diana Derosa

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June 2, 2009

Mom’s Corner - More Musings

Last night I went into my bathroom to get ready for bed. As I was taking off my makeup (no I am not a natural beauty), I noticed tiny black bugs circling my arms. I was amazed to see NO Seeums in the house. This is a first as you really can’t see them since they are smaller then the tip of a pin. Naturally I swatted at them but the Dear Lord gave them an advantage over us humans.  They move faster then light when they feel your hand coming towards them. Believe me , I tried and tried to swat them to no avail. Then I noticed as I was turning on the water that there were 5 in the sink basin. Ah Ha, Now I have you , I thought, so I turned on the water and watched them go down the drain. So where did 5 more come from? Do they go to sleep when the lights go out? All questions to ponder, or not.  So what do you think?

Robert’s Mom

Filed under: Everything Else, Mom — RDover2 @ 8:41 pm

Team Building - Nothing Could Be Harder

One thing you can be sure of is that, especially going into Olympic and World Championship years, the building of our teams, be they for any sports, is always a big issue for competitors, sponsors, and pretty much anyone else with an opinion.  And with horses it’s more than easy to understand why.  It’s not just that everyone concerned with a particular horse/rider combination knows just how difficult and full of hardships the extremely long road up to that point has been; it is also that we all know that from the many people across the country trying out, only 4 lucky contenders will ultimately receive the privilege of representing the U.S.A. at the games. (actually only 3 at Olympics as of now!)

So the question is: Is it fair to allow someone who has represented another country internationally to become a U.S. citizen and, if selected, be placed on our team?

First let me say that there are both International Olympic Committee and Federation Equestre International rules pertaining to athletes who request to change their nationality and represent their new homeland on teams.  Naturally, one must first become a legal citizen of this new country which, as anyone who has done can tell you, is a long and cumbersome process.  This is why so many times new citizens seem more “American” in their patriotic and proud attitudes toward their new homeland then do many naturally born residents.  I can tell you for sure that nobody is more “American” than my friends and old teammates, Guenter, Steffen, and Christine.   I love it!

But, back to the rules. In order for someone to change countries once they have represented them at major Games, CDIO’s (in Dressage), or World Cups, their National Federations must “release them” which allows them to request to be taken on by the country they hope to ride for. If the new country accepts them and they are qualified, they normally must still wait at least two years from the date from which they last competed at any of those international events I mentioned above.  However, the FEI, citing extraordinary circumstances, does have the right to grant a waiver to the two year rule. This is the same with all sports as far as I know within the Olympic family. As a matter of fact, every Olympic year one can read about athletes who receive citizenship for a  particular country and almost imediatley are named onto the team from their new homeland.

Now, I understand why you might say it doesn’t seem fare to all those athletes who have worked so long to try to make one of those very few team spots, not to mention the owners and sponsors of our ridiculously expensive partners, the horses.  After all the money, time, training, energy and emotion extended to get so close, how could someone come in and seemingly steal their spot?

So here’s the thing.  Making a team is just not easy no matter where one comes from, or even how much of a “shoe in” everyone thinks they are going to be, even in the case of top riders from other countries.  I remember back to one year when a top Olympic medalist tried to make our team, shortly after changing citizenship.  It didn’t go her way that year, which has nothing to do with her capabilities, for she was absolutely fantastic!  Just not the right moment for her that time. Making the team is unbelievably stressful and the best, most prepared, and hopefully talented ones will usually rise to the top.  I also remember when Jane Clark bought me the great Kennedy to ride, and many people wrote in to websites that they thought it was wrong and unfair that she and I could ” buy” our way onto the team.  Two things occur to me when I think about that time.  First, anyone thinking that Turbo (Kennedy) was a piece of cake should have taken one ride on him and they would probably never have made that mistake again.  He wasn’t called Turbo for nothin!   Secondly, I recall that many of the very people critical of Jane and me when we got the horse, became our best friends when it was clear he would help bring back medals to the U.S.A.

At the end of the day, it depends on your perspective as to how you feel about this issue. While I understand the frustration of riders and owners who feel they have gone through the whole process correctly, only to be either “out horsed or out ridden” at the last minute by a “ringer”, I also know that, put in the position of trying to build the best possible team for one’s country, I would want to avail myself of every top rider and horse which, under the rules and regulations, I could use to ensure our team came home with those all elusive medals hanging from around their necks. 

Let me hear how you all feel about it.

Cheers!

RD

Filed under: Uncategorized — RDover2 @ 8:30 pm

Ask Rhonda - Robert Dover: How it all began.

Hi Rhonda,
Will you share with us how you came to know Robert?
Thanks,
Julie

 

Dear Julie,

Whilst I am sure that most of my readers would imagine that Rhonda and Robert’s paths crossed while jet setting around the world surrounded by celebrities on the A list guest list within “DoversWorld” or maybe on one of his carefree adventures to Fire Island, Africa or on one of the world’s finest cruise ships.  Or maybe even in one of the VIP lounges in one of his six Olympics (I think I just got a nosebleed). I know what you’re thinking, it all sounds soooo FABULOUS and we’ll probably see it all on E-True Hollywood someday.  But, the truth of the matter is before Robert met Rhonda he was simply a good-hearted wallop of teased hair and bad teeth with a bag full of medals.

As I open this ultimately boring story, imagine the theme music to “Charlie’s Angels”. It will make the intro more entertaining.  Here we go, so cue the music… Once upon a time there were three little Jews, Robert, Robert & Rhonda. And they all met because of one man named Ken Berkley. Ken liked to throw dinner parties and one spring night in 1989 he brought us all together…(ok, cut the music. The into is over).

There were no fireworks, no instant attraction and no indication that we would ever see each other again, let alone become best of friends (although I still think Robert may have had inappropriate feelings for me that night…and to this day). Robert and Robert (sorry to throw him under the bus too) were two of the nicest guys that I had met, but also two of the oldest souls I had aver seen packaged into 20 and 30 year old bodies. And I say “old soul” so that I don’t sound bitchy (what I really want to say is boring and unglamorous).

They arrived by 7PM, had one drink (maybe), ate dinner, said their goodbyes and were home in bed by 9:15PM (and I think I am being generous with the 9:15). So there you have it. That is the seedling that sprouted a wonderful and what will be a lifelong friendship.  I know what many of you are thinking; Rhonda had her work cut out for her! Yes she certainly did, but Robert and his friendship has given back more than you can ever imagine. Whilst I may have made a few influential adjustments to his “fun scale”, I have not made any changes to the heart and soul of the person. Everyone should have a friend like him…

Best,

Rhonda

Filed under: Ask Rhonda, Everything Else — admin @ 12:47 pm

June 1, 2009

Mom’s Corner -MUSINGS

THE OTHER DAY I WENT TO THE GROCERY STORE TO PICK UP A FEW THINGS IN THEIR DELI SECTION. THE NICEST MIDDLE AGED MAN WEARING A SUIT AND TIE SAID, “GOOD MORNING MADAM. HOW MAY I SERVE YOU?”    WOW! NO ONE AT THE DELI HAD EVER SPOKEN TO ME LIKE THAT - AS IF I WERE BUYING DIAMONDS. I SAID I WILL HAVE 6 SLICES OF BORES HEAD HAM AND 6 SLICES OF SWISS CHEESE PLEASE. “BORES HEAD CHEESE MADAM?” YES PLEASE I REPLIED.. HE SLICED OFF ONE OF EACH FOR HERB & ONE FOR ME AND SAID, “DOES THIS THICKNESS PLEASE YOU MADAM?” I SAID YES IT WAS PERFECT. HE SAID, “THANK YOU, MADAM.” HE HANDED HERB THE PACKAGE WITH AN, “ENJOY YOUR PURCHASE AND HAVE A LOVELY DAY.”
I THOUGHT TO MYSELF, WHO COULD THIS MAN BE? AN EXECUTIVE WITH THE STORE, OR A NEWLY OUT OF WORK GENTLEMAN WHO IS WILLING TO WORK AT ANYTHING AS LONG AS IT IS AN HONEST JOB!
SADLY I NEVER SAW HIM AGAIN.
SO WHAT DO YOU THINK ?
ROBERTS MOM

Filed under: Everything Else, Mom — RDover2 @ 5:55 pm
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