In 1983 Herb & I were thrilled to see Robert’s long uphill climb to become a Dressage Star come to fruition. Not only was he going to ride Romantico in the 1984 Olympics, but he would become the Captain of the team. That was a great honor, and one he would receive 6 times. I had a jewelry corner in a friend’s boutique. Everyone was congratulating me and asking how it felt to have a son in the Olympics. I also enjoyed having a jewelry table at the Horse shows. Herb would help me sell. We made many life long friends. Everyone was excited and impressed, as few knew anyone who had ever gone to an Olympics event. My first thought was,” What should I wear?” Now that I look back at the album that I had put together, I see that I wore lovely pants and skirts. It was long before ladies wore jeans. Soon we were caught up in preparation for the trip. There were airline tickets, motel reservations for Margo, Tom, and their two little girls, Dale, and for us. Herb rented a huge van. No SUVs were around then. The time went fast, and at last we were on our way. There was one very important person we had been trying to convince to come with us. She was our own Aunt Tillie. Herb’s mom had died at 54 from cancer, and Tillie, being her sister, stepped right in to mother us, a job she did to perfection. Whenever we went out of town for a few days, Aunt Tillie was right there to take care of the kids. My only regret was that she always had their hair cut before we returned. She couldn’t see trying to unsnarl Margo’s hair, or make Dale cry when she combed hers. Al & Robert even lost their baby curls. I had to hold myself back from crying over that. Every Friday Aunt Tillie came over and cooked up a storm. She would say to the children, “What would you like for dinner, dear?” “Oh, Al, you want chicken. Fine”. “And you, Margo?” “Oh, you want spaghetti?. Fine, dear”. “And you Dale? Oh, you want lamb chops. Fine dear.”And you, Robert? Oh, you want what your brother is having. Fine, dear”. When Robert was about 8 Herb opened up a new Do-Ray Lamp Company factory in Toronto. It was a big shock to the kids when I said, “no more Aunt Tillie. From now on it’s Hamburger Surprise for all.” They survived. I say all this to tell you that Aunt Tillie was very special to all of us. The only problem is she had never flown. She was scared to death of flying. On the day we left, her children found her in the basement doing laundry with curlers in her hair. They had packed a bag for her. They handed her her ticket and whisked her off to catch her flight. We were all thrilled to go to the airport to pick her up. She was still protesting that she needed a touch up. We overcame all that with many hugs and kisses. The first thing she did upon arriving at the hotel was to hunt out a grocery store. Off she went to find goodies for all her children, “they shouldn’t starve to death.” It was very hot in Los Angeles, with sweltering, oppressive heat. The Olympics opening ceremony was spectacular. Nothing like that had ever been seen in America before. We came into the stadium to see hundreds of balloons lying on the field. Little did we suspect that under each balloon was a person getting ready to let them loose to fly away into the air. There was a Wild West pageant. Then 40 pianos came out of the wall with men dressed in formal whites playing patriotic songs. The Olympians were piped in, and we were mesmerized by the young people parading before us who would compete over the next few weeks. Many would win medals. Many would have their hearts broken, but all would go home with the knowledge that for once in their young lives they had had the chance at immortality. Off we went for the first team day. Whoops! Margo left her tickets on the bed. Back she and Herb went. In the picture you see the huge crowd of thousands of people in the stands. We were standing nearby, as Robert entered on Romantico. The trainer gave Romantico a hard crack on the back of his legs as he entered. I remember thinking, “that is one horse who will lift up his legs for sure.” And it came to pass he remembered, and wouldn’t stop Piaffing, ending Robert’s chances.What was wonderful about that first Olympics was that the Olympic committee had provided, free of charge, for all the American parents, to be seated together. Robert was the first American rider to enter. Picture, if you can, 22,472 people stamping their feet, whooping, and applauding this entrance. As you know Dressage is done to “no noise”, period. I always said to Robert,”You should train your horse to hear noise and not freak out.” My heart almost burst with pride when he rode down the center line, looking like a young god. His outcome wasn’t perfect, but we enjoyed every minute of our time there. We had luncheons with our Canadian friends, our California friends and family, and new friends who came to tell us how much they admired Robert.Half Halt was there too. Robert’s friend David took great care of him. Robert said he had learned a great deal from that first Olympics. I still have the red shirt made for us by his Texas friends. I am thinking of framing it and letting Robert use it at a silent auction to raise money for his Equestrian Aid Foundation.What do you think, friends? Roberts Mom