June 28, 2010

Help Me Help Others!

I am not sure what drove me to write last night’s post called, “HELP”; however, today I received to such calls for help and so now I ask you to read their messages and if you can, please help these people.

Syd wrote me on Facebook and I told him immediately to write in to DoversWorld and leave a way to contact him directly. He left his message in 2 places- both under “Questions and Comments” and “Dover’s Dreams And Yours”. I hope you will answer his prayers and help him if you are able.

Gay Walker wrote in and asked if I might be able to help people who are selling their tickets or hotel rooms at WEG because they are no longer able to attend. Her e-mail address is gmwalkersd@mac.com if you or someone you know needs a hotel room that is well priced. She would go if she could but it is impossible for her so let’s see if we can help her out as well.

It’s all about helping others, eh? For sure, that is the very best thing I have found my DoversWorld.com site good for!

Cheers!

RD

Filed under: Uncategorized — RDover2 @ 9:33 pm

HELP

You know, everybody needs a little help from time to time. Some people need a little bit more than others and since we really are all connected to each other and all things in nature we truly are incapable of helping another without helping ourselves in the end. I believe that this is why people talk of the laws of Karma. It’s not actually that you get back because you have given before, but rather that precisely as you give to others, your true connection with them means you are simply giving to yourself.

And this is why I try to do at least one good thing for someone or something every day. I hope I do more than just one, but I try never to go to bed without having the thought that I did a minimum of one Mizvah ( Jiddish for a good deed) that day. The good news is most of you do good things without even knowing you have done them, but I like to end my day by thinking of a Mizvah I have performed that day - and then I go to sleep, just as I’m about to do right now.

Cheers!

RD

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June 26, 2010

Home In Florida :)

I arrived home to Wellington to both my boys, Robert and Simon, and was whisked off to immediately look at 2 homes for sale in Palm Beach Polo Club to replace the one we just sold. And today we looked at about 12 more places before heading down to our condo in South Beach where I am writing this post while sitting on my couch with Simon on my lap. HAPPY!
We will go back up to Wellington and look a bit further before we leave for Fire Island, NY, on Tuesday for our “real vacation”. I must say that the last period of time has been so intense with my Canadian riders that I am finding it a bit hard to unwind out of my horsey mode. But I’m sure after another day or so I will begin to relax as being in South Beach always helps me to do.

I was very happy to hear that Courtney King-Dye is now well enough to be spending weekends at home in New York and going in for therapy daily during the week. And Guenter is most likely going to be released from the hospital on Monday, from which he will go to the Balkenhol’s, also to have daily therapy until he can be flown home in the middle of July. All great news!

Congratulations go out to Tina Konyot for her 4th place finish in the Grand Prix in Fritzen, Austria, yesterday. She will compete tomorrow in the Special and I wish her the best of luck. Same goes for the Canadian Riders competing there.

Cheers!

RD

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June 24, 2010

Home!

img00046-20100215-1240-simon-under-bedIn less than 24 hours I will be on my way home for a 10 day vacation to see Robert, my folks and my Simon and I can hardly wait! It has been awesome here at Jewel Court Stud as well as going to the great shows in Europe, but I am so looking forward to some down-time and I think it will be a good time for my team to process a lot of what they have been learning as well, without hearing my voice every minute. :)
And when you see the picture, you understand how much going home means to me, eh?

Cheers!

RD

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June 23, 2010

Riding And My Mom

I have to thank my Mom publicly for the wonderful job she has done recounting my six Olympics from her perspective. Reading about Athens, I had forgotten so many of the little details which took place within the day-to-day goings-on of our lives, but my Mom brought them back to me…..and in living colour! So, THANKS MOM and I Love You!

Most of my riders have gone on mini-vacations so I’ve been hard at work, riding their horses daily since gettng back from the hospital where Guenter is making amazing progress. Today, not only did he walk up and down the halls with his therapist, he actually began climbing steps! It takes a lot of upper body strength, especially in the arms, to go up and down steps without using your legs. But our Olympian did not become who he is without the fantastic determination and will to succeed in everything, this included. I believe the hardest thing will be preventing him from pushing himself too hard every day. It may require drugs. :)

Anyway, I have to say that I so enjoy getting to ride such great horses as those on my squad. Each is extremely different from the others and requires a very distinct style to produce the best possible results, very much like with people. Anton is a lot like riding Kennedy in personality and athleticism. He is a blast! Pikardi is one of the strongest willed horses I have ever met. You have to make him believe that everything is his idea and then he is so proud to show you how talented he is and how well he can go. Pop Art is simply a genius. He knows exactly who he is and that he is loved and appreciated for everything he does every day of his life. Pfallstaff is unbelieveably sweet as well and truly never wants to put a foot out of place. He absolutley does not ever want to be in trouble and goes to any extent to please his rider day after day. And Ayscha is a fabulous budding star and a lady and wants to be treated as such. When you feel her tremendous scope, you know immediately you are on a world-class horse. On Friday, I leave for home and New York for 10 days. It will be strange to be away from my “children”, but I think it will be good for us all in the end. When I return, we will do a schooling show as preparation and then Aachen, here we come!

Cheers!

RD

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Suite Available For WEG’s!

Due to Guenter’s accident, the following suite has become available. Here is the info:

The Marriott Griffin Gate Resort and SpaReservation for a Parlor Suite
September 25 until October 2, 2010 ( Dressage and Three Day Event same time frame)
Parlor Suite has a nice bedroom, with king bed, Lovely living room with balcony and two bathrooms. 
There is a convertible sofa in the living room. 
Wet bar and small refrigerator.
Excellent restaurants and fun bar. Excellent Service in hotel.
Shuttle service daily to and from Kentucky Horse Park World Equestrian Games Stadium.
$10,281.52

If you are interested, please contact Dick and Jane Brown at usadressage@roadrunner.com

Cheers’

RD

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June 22, 2010

Back In Brasschaat

I left Guenter in great hands with his Mom and Sean to take care of him and spoke to him twice today. Not only did he walk around three times, Guenter actually took his first shower in a week, which I know was a relief to him and probably the nurses, though I guess I could be wrong on that one.

Anyway, I got back to work around 1pm and trained this afternoon as well as did a photo shoot for Horse Sport Magazine. Keep a watch for me on the cover and an extensive article that should be coming out soon. It was a beautiful day here at Jewel Court. The only thing that I could complain about is that during the week while we were gone somebody upstairs decided to unleash the “greenhead” population and they were swarming and biting so badly that I had to ride indoors. I guess I should just be thankful I have an indoors, eh? I am hoping they won’t be up in the morning when we are riding as I have a real “thing” about insects which bite and suck blood. They could so easily have been left out of the master plan, you know!

Cheers!

RD

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June 21, 2010

What A Difference A Day Makes!

img00158-20100621-1713-gs-day-224 little hours later and my good friend, Guenter Seidel is not only looking better, he was up walking twice with his crutches and sitting up to eat his meals! With the spirit of a true Olympian, this man is determined to get back to his normal life in record time, Naturally, he will do so while following the doctor’s orders to the letter, and will only fly home once the lung specialist sees him and determines him fit for air travel - 100%! With his Mom and Sean now here as well as friends coming regularly to visit, I will take my leave in the morning and head back to Brasschaat and my team to train and ride while some of the ladies are away. Guenter is in the very best hands but I was truly gald to see and be with him for a couple of days. As you can see above ( and on your side :) ), he is making great progress.

Cheers!

RD

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Mom’s Corner - Athens 2004

1

The games of the XXVIII Olympiad were to be held in Athens Greece, August 13th to

the 24th. After all Greece is where the first Olympiad was held in 1896.

What a wonderful way for Robert to end his career, and on his 6thth horse, the

magnificent Kennedy owned by lovely Jane Clark. To make our trip even better, Margo

was coming along. Between us I believe our children decided someone had to take charge

of us. No matter what we loved having her along.

The young man who picked us up at the Airport became our mode of transportation for

our entire stay. Here is a picture of us with him in a great down town restaurant. The food

was delicious. He enjoyed being with us so much his mother gave me a beautiful silver

charm.

2

I am sure you have all read about the Greek attitude to having their government broke.

They ignore it, and are very happy to live as they do. Robert reminded me that Greece is

satisfied to be a third world country. During the first three years construction on the

venues was moving pretty slowly but when there was no more time to waste everything

was speeded up and was ready for the world to view the splendid results. It is sad to

report that almost all of the Olympic venues have fallen into varying states of disrepair.

21 Of the 22 facilities built for the games have been left abandoned, or are in a state of

dereliction, with squatters camps, vandalism, and graffiti, or strewn with rubbish. But

let’s forget all that and return to our arrival in Athens.

As I remember it, Robert Ross rented a house out in the sticks near the equestrian events

for us and their friends, David and Josh. Even our trusted cab driver had trouble finding

the house. There were no street signs, just a reflector lighted by our cab lights. We had to

stop on the side road and walk carefully to the entrance. My first words when we entered

were “please turn on the air conditioning.” There was one little air conditioner in the

kitchen dining area. As the driver brought in our luggage he said, “don’t worry Madame,

I will go to town and get it turned on.” Good as his word, on came the air-conditioning.

Just as quickly, it blew out all the fuses down the hill right into town! The bedrooms were

so small you had to walk sideways to get in and out.

By the next day all was peaceful and HOT. The patio was quite large and had several

decorative jars. The Greeks don’t neuter dogs or cats so there were many strays around.

We had our own family of new kittens. Margo used to be the rescue lady in Austin, Texas,

and immediately adopted the family, fed and played with them. It was our fervent hope

that when the owners moved back in they would continue with her tender care.

3There is a beautiful harbor in Porto Rafti. We went there for a typical Greek lunch.

4

There were no flowered paths into the arena, just barren ground as you see with Margo

and Herb waving.

6There was a handsome metal archway you entered after being searched.

5

We passed the Olympic Village. It resembled a prison. No wonder our equestrians chose

to live in a house on their own.

7

Robert and the equestrians lived in a 10 bedroom house with only 2 bathrooms! A huge

sign said, “Do not put paper into toilet, not even when used. There is a bag in the wall for

paper.” Every day the team was transported in a van. The day of his team ride, his hand

got caught in the van door. I asked how he could ride. He said he was concentrating so

hard he didn’t feel any pain.

The Arena itself was very pretty with flowers and comfortable seating. We only ventured

out of the hospitality suite to watch our team ride. Other than that we watched the riders

on a large TV provided by the host country.

In the picture you see the teams being given their medals. The Americans received the

bronze.

8

In the last Olympic picture you see Robert getting ready to ride. Looking back, I believe

he was performing his musical Kur. He finished a strong 6th.

9The equestrians, family and friends were invited by the United States Equestrian Team

Foundation, and Tiffany & Company for cocktails and a traditional Greek cuisine at the

home of Robert & Sophia Simpson, 16 Skiathou Street, Ano Lagonisi, Kalvia.

It was the only house for miles around and was enclosed by a very high wall. Getting

there was another thing. I can laugh at it now. I never thought we would arrive because

the instructions were to pass the gas station, and then turn left… you get the idea. It was a

magical night with the sky full of stars. The dinner was very good as promised. Robert

got up and made a very nice thank you speech. He is very eloquent, as anyone who ever

heard him speak will testify. His adoring parents were very proud.

After the Olympics were officially over Herb and I set out to see the amazing ruins.

I bought a huge hat with all the pins on it. The brim covered my shoulders. I still have it.

It was sad to say goodbye to Athens, we had such a wonderful time.

Jean

These are some of Margos memories:

Wish I could remember the name of the cab driver but that’s just out of my head all

together. Maybe Josh, our youngest could remember. I think I remember that we got

lost a lot trying to find our way up to our house.

I remember that it was terribly hot and incredibly dusty and everywhere you looked there

were half finished buildings. I remember that due to security, the entry points where you

went through, were a long distance away from the venues and it was tough going

sometimes. I remember delicious restaurants with high prices, one in particular where

they had pictures of the glitterati dating back from the 1960s, Kennedys and all eating

there. I remember Greek people being very nice.

I remember that we got to join the team and their families and had wonderful meals and

shared stories and laughter and enjoyed the camaraderie outside the ring which felt

special. Suddenly in the stands you had a whole family around you sharing the nerves

and the anticipation and the hope and more nerves! I remember feeling the sheer force of

the energy coming off Jane Forbes Clark when we sat together while Robert rode. It was

quite a feeling.

I remember kittens that were living in the outdoor barbecue area on the large terrace that

surrounded the house and I remember meeting Josh and David for the first time and

falling in love.

What fun the 5 of us had in that house, eating figs and fresh bread and cheese and lots

of laughing and having the owner drop in, Idon’t remember why. Just a nice Greek man.

And then there was the time, around 5:30 one afternoon, after we’d all rested a bit and

were just hanging out, that I went outside and the kittens were out in full force so Icalled

you and dad to come see them. You in a bath robe, me in pj pants and tee and dad …..

well, I’m sure he was dressed perfectly, all coming out to see the babies. Last thing I said

was, “dad, don’t close the door all the way or we’ll be locked out” - but he didn’t hear the

words “locked out” because he was too busy closing the door. There we were, three

Dovers on a terrace and no way in! The Roberts were with the team, the boys had gone

to do some exploring in the city and would be out late 888..the Dovers were going to

spend the night sitting on the terrace. There was a table and chairs and it was well

enclosed with a lovely iron gate - there was no way in. So we decided that I’d go to a

neighbors and see if we could borrow something like a knife or credit card and try to get

in. I began walking door to door and it wasn’t pretty - no one home, scary dog, no one

answers and then I saw a man and Iyelled “help me please” and he walked over, carrying

a lovely bottle of red wine he was taking to an important dinner party and said, “I’ll try and

help”. His wife came along a moment later. She spoke no English. He spoke a little. He

began trying to open the door and with his wife standing behind him for about 25 minutes

saying they had to go. You didn’t need to understand Greek to understand she was

unhappy. He kept at it until the door swung open and we all shouted with glee and you

went inside and came back out with a bottle of wine and gave it to them in thanks.We

were out there about 2 hours before we got help. We laughed a lot for the first hour or

so.

I mostly remember being together with you and Dad and the boys and loving that

feeling of being part of something so magical, just writing about it makes me feel the

love.

Margo

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June 20, 2010

Friends And Fathers

I arrived at the hospital in Munster this afternoon after a 3 hour drive from Rotterdam and in “typical Dover form” proceeded to get completely lost within the hospital complex. Naturally, I had parked in front of the main entrance in the parking lot, but after looking at the building in front of me I had a vision of me pushing Guenter in his bed right out the entrance doors to find a “nicer” place. I’m sorry but the main buildings look like something out of a scary movie from Eastern Block, circa 1942. Anyway, as it turned out I was told by a very nice man that I was in the wrong building and that Guenter was about a 5 minute walk away. That is, if you are not me and have any sense of direction at all. Twenty minutes later I found the right floor of the correct building and was very pleased to see my friend in quite a nice room, for the time being by himself and not so uncomfortable as he had been. They had taken the chest tube out and he was breathing much easier and happier. I brought an official Rotterdam pullover which many of the riders signed for him as well as a stall plaquette from the show. As always has been the case, our Guenter can get a prize even without attending the competition! As we chatted Egbert Kraack and his wife, Julie,arrived followed by Klaus and Judith Balkenhol and when they left, in came Guenter’s Mom and a cousin. In other words, he is definitely not alone. And Sean, his partner, is arriving tomorrow so we intend to have a nice party at Guenter’s bedside (until the nurses through us out!) I snagged a pic on my phone of Guenter talking away with Sean so you could see for yourself that he’s on the mend. Take a look below. :)

I also want to wish my Dad, Herb Dover and all the Dads out there a very Happy Father’s Day! We love and appreciate you and hope you enjoy a great day. I wish I were there to celebrate the day with my Dad but hope do do so later in the week when I am down in florida for a few days on my vacation home.

Cheers!

RDimg00156-20100620-1623-guenter

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